How to Make Matching Rings
A promise ring is a symbol for commitment, and is often viewed as a pre-engagement ring. It could be presented as a symbol for chastity or loyalty, monogamy or friendship. If you're planning to purchase rings for a promise to your significant other to signify your commitment, it is important to be clear about what you're promising.
Selecting Matching Couple Necklaces
Find out the reaction of your recipient by knowing what you are giving them. If you're presenting the promise to someone as a gesture of friendship or for someone you've recently started dating, pick an inexpensive and simple item. If you're hoping to receive a marriage proposal from your partner, pick the jewelry that is less culturally significant or consider swapping promise rings before the surprise is delivered.
Choose a present that the recipient can wear. If they don't wear rings, put the ring on a necklace chain or use another "promise gift". Try to find out the size of their ring by temporarily "stealing" rings and having a jeweler take a measurement of it.
If the person who is receiving the gift is likely to wear or scratch rings (such as in construction or rock climbing), choose a material that is hard like titanium.
If the ring represents a promise to become engaged in the near future or it's a "wedding ring" for a couple who does not intend to marry pick a ring which will fit on the ring finger of the left hand, or where your partner plans to wear a wedding ring.
For the majority of promise rings, pick rings that fit on any other finger. The ring finger on the right hand can differ in size from the left.
Examine posy rings. These rings made of metal, also called poesy rings, contain a love story or a promise engraved on their insides, right next to the wearer. These rings are a good choice because they can be distinguished from wedding bands, and also display a promise.
A jeweler can help you create your own posy rings by engraving an inscription from you to the recipient.
Many rings with a posy are Bible verses or Christian writings. However, the tradition has spread to secular society and other religious couples.
Think about the Claddagh ring. These rings are Irish and feature two clasped-hands holding hearts. This visual symbol of love or friendship is a sweet reminder to be committed.
Ask about customization. A majority of jewelers will design or customize rings for you, incorporating special elements such as an engraved message or unique, significant decoration. Think about engraving the promise you will make verbally.
Explore other alternatives. A promise ring should not be so costly or complicated that it's mistaken for a marriage ring. However an ring with significance can add value to your promise. You could consider a ring that features the recipient's birthstone or a custom-designed engraving.
Create your own jewelry if aren't able to afford it or the receiver prefers gifts with less expense. Make use of a material or object that has significance in your relationship if possible.
A necklace, earring or other piece is just as effective. This is especially appropriate when you are presenting the promise to someone who is looking to marry; you don't want to be misleading them.
If you're having trouble choosing or just like this idea, you can ask the recipient if they would like to exchange rings for promise, then talk together about choosing a pair that is compatible.
Find out the size of their ring. If you're looking to surprise them Don't reveal that you're doing this. Have your family and friends help you determine which rings fit. If you're still unsure you're not sure, look for a ring that can be altered in size.